Saturday, March 28, 2009
Assumptions
Assumptions happen every day. I assume things about people that I do not even know based on what clothes they wear and their appearance in general. The girl who wears the dorky glasses and never fixes her hair must be the biggest nerd in the world. The guy who wears DC shoes and rides a skateboard to class must not be too smart. Although sometimes these assumptions prove to be correct, most of the time one cannot pinpoint another’s personality based on them. Yesterday I went to the mall with a male friend to help him pick out a tux for prom in his home town. As we were discussing the options with the employee she made the assumption that I was going with him. When I chuckled and said quickly that I wasn’t his date she seemed embarrassed. Her assumption was legit, but it was definitely wrong. I am positive that I would have thought the same thing if I was in her shoes. This mistake was hilarious to my friend and me, but she didn’t feel the same emotions. Assumptions are not always the best way to handle situations because as the saying goes, “Assuming makes an ass out of you and me.”
Tuesday, March 24, 2009
UNCW- Football Program
The University of North Carolina Wilmington is an outstanding academic institution, and does not need to invest in a football program. The costs of a football team would be enormous. Funding would heavily depend on donations and tuition. During this economic crisis, an investment in a football program would not be a wise decision. Not only would millions of dollars be required to establish a team, but clearing a space for a stadium would also add up. Basketball and baseball at UNCW allows students to display school spirit while having a fantastic experience. Another sport is not a necessity when it comes to UNCW. Also because of UNCW’s high academic standards, many talented football players would not be able to succeed outside of the field. UNCW offers many unique qualities already, and does not need to support a football program.
Wednesday, March 18, 2009
VCC Champions!

It was my senior year, and I had finally earned the dignified title of cheerleading captain. The pressure was all one me to be the best captain, and a supportive friend to an extraordinary team. I loved the girls dearly, and I was willing to do whatever it took to win the Championship. After a couple of my fellow teammates declined the offer to compete at Nationals, my disappointment level increased dramatically. In my opinioin, such an opportunity should not have been wasted, but without two girls we didn't stand a chance against other teams. Practice for conference was held everyday for hours taht seemed to stretch for eternity. Our lives revolved around the sport; there was no time for anything else. Although frustration and anxiety rose whitin the girls, I pushed them to the limit. I was positive that they flet hatred, but I could not let it phase me. The day of the VCC Championship Competition sprang upon us like the days before had vanished. My coach demanded that the girls remain in the locker room while the other teams practiced on the mat. The loud booms of the music sent a chill down my spine, and I prayed that I worked my team hard enough to be prepared for this. In the short seconds before our music blasted from the speakers, I caught my sister's eye. Her foot was in my sweaty hand, and the pressure of her weight pushed on my shoulder. No sound came to my ears, but I saw her quietly whisper, "You are the best captain. We got this!" The Fuqua Varsity Cheerleaders took the Championship title that day. It was the first time in twelve years that the cheerleading team was capable of putting a banner on our gym wall. Throughout the process, I had unwavering dedication. Althought the practices were grueling, the girls were thankful in the end. That was the happiest day of my life. What more could a senior captain ask for?
Staying Real

Last March I participated in a photo shoot for a dress company in my home town. First of all, I was never the little girl who wanted to be a model, instead I dreamed of being a farmer or a veterinarian. I believe that childhood aspiration set me apart from 90% of the female population. When I arrived at the shoot the other three girls were already there. Their hair was in perfect curls and fake lashes were glued to their eyelids. I admit that the girls intimidated me, but I knew that I could not show my discomfort. The girls quickly told me that they had all been in pageants since they could remember, and completed numerous photo shoots before this one. I responded with honesty saying that this was my first time, and I had never entered a pageant for lack of interest. Astounded by this, they asked what I had been doing for the past 18 years of my life. Once again, I answered in an honest fashion: I have been on a tractor. Their repulsive curiosity increased from the words coming out of my mouth. By the end of the day all three of the girls were more than interested in my farm life. They continued to ask thousands of questions, and I politely answered. At the beginning of the day I felt uncomfortable around the girls because I knew that I came from a different background, but as I shared my rare history they became more and more curious. Just becasue one feels awkward around other people does not mean that they should hide who they are. You never know, it might work to your advantage.
Thursday, March 5, 2009
Candy's Sugarman Outline

Title: Candy’s Sugarman
I. Introduction
II.Contrast
A. Movie vs. Song
i. Visual, Auditory
B. Movie intertwines love and drugs more than the song
i. The characters love only survived because of the drugs
C. Song discusses more drugs
i. Describes the wonderful feelings that come from drugs
ii. Explained the anxious feeling one has when waiting for drugs
III. Compare
A.Describe same concept
i. Drugs send people on magical trips, so does love
B. Love
i. The characters love was enhanced when the used heroin
C. Necessity
i. They needed to be in love with each other to survive
ii. They also needed the drugs to survive
IV. Conclusion
Joy's School of Dance

The passion of dance has consumed my life for 17 years. I have enjoyed the inspiration and physical wellness that comes from the art of dance, so naturally when I moved to Wilmington I vigorously searched for a dance studio. Each one either didn’t offer difficult classes or ones to college students. I took this information hard, and was seriously upset when I discovered that I wouldn’t be able to dance in a studio. I decided a while ago that I wanted to try-out for UNCW’s dance team, and I needed difficult training before pursuing a membership with the dance team. I eventually accepted the fact that I would not be able to train in a nearby studio, so I gave up. Just as soon as I had given up, my hometown dance studio sent me a message asking if I could be in a performance in May. Although I could never dance with that studio again, I felt a sudden rush of excitement to at least perform again. Joy’s School of Dance is a tiny studio in a tiny town, yet it has proven to be the best studio I have ever attended. Apparently, it’s also better than any studio in the semi-large town of Wilmington. That studio in little Amelia, Virginia will always be my diamond in the rough.
Wednesday, February 25, 2009
Nightmare Cure

Lately, my roommate and I have been having strange dreams that affect our daily lives. We have been discussing these terrifying nightmares with one another since last week. As we were trying to rack our brains for a cure, I remembered something that I had heard about bed directions a long time ago. I could not recall the exact details of this saying so we decided to look it up. What we found was incredibly interesting and actually seemed to be correct. Our beds currently face the north, and apparently that is the worst direction. The hypothesis states that earth’s energy comes from the north to the south and the east to the west. Ideally one’s feet should point toward either the south or west. The energy from the earth should enter your head and travel to your feet. Another aspect of a good night sleep is Ch’I which is a form of feng shui. This energy comes through a door, veers to the left, and circles the room. This energy, unlike earth’s energy, should enter from your feet. If one’s head is pointing towards the door then it is said that they will toss and turn during the night. Electrical devices also affect people’s sleep. If phones or iPods are close to your head then it will interfere with your brain waves. Certain signs are more sensitive than others including Gemini, Aires, and Aquarius. This information startled my roommate and me because first of all, we face the north when sleeping. Secondly, my head is pointed toward the door every night, and my roommate sleeps with her phone beside her. We realized that this might be a myth, but we have decided to investigate. Next week, we plan to point our beds toward the south and west, and move them away from the door entrance. Hopefully this will put an end to our horrifying nightmares.
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